My ruminations are someone's reality

I ruminate about shameless mothers, deadbeat fathers, broken homes a lot like I mean a lot ( the first one more often) . It is deeply distressing to me. The stupid thing here is that I am a privileged spoiled ****ing brat in every way. My parents are upper middle class, happily married(mostly) I have a great family. No deadbeat father no shameless mother no broken home.

But you see my problem is that it doesn't matter that I have a great ****ing life its that so many dont and their problems are caused by society that validates their abusers particularly their mothers. Every distressing unrealistic rumination I have is a real problem that someone is living through. I find it impossible to snap back into reality mostly when my fake distressing rumination is someone's reality.

The problem is our society keeps validating disgusting behavior just because it is an outlier and wants to promote it. So a lot of the suffering and betrayals that we face from the ones we love it is mostly because they rationalized their lies and hurt you but again society lets that happen it validates that. I will give you an example: age gaps for example are literally everywhere it makes me wanna throw up tbh and people validate that **** I kid you not, just their other day I read a post from a 22 year old woman who was pregnant with a 50 year old guy's baby and all the people were like yeah whatever be happy get a grandpa baby daddy. I know people are a bit more biased towards sugar daddies than they are towards cougars but even then i found so many people telling this woman that is perfectly fine and she did nothing wrong or that man did nothing wrong and I found that really frustration like I am sure that 50 year old man most probably has kids of his own close to her age probably a daughter can you imagine how humiliated she must feel? think of the girl's parents the dad now has to deal with a situation where his precious daughter is having a baby with a man close to his age. Think of the kids the kid's dad would probably be dead before he/she is like 25. Its logically a stupid thing where you hurt everyone who gives two shits about you and yourself why is this ******** being validated? she is pregnant probably hormonal she is vulnerable to this bs and so are other young people and then that guy well he is thinking with his peepee. I find people's promotion of hedonism and selfishness disgusting. I also see people ignore male female intersexual dynamics so often like if the roles had been reversed it would still be pretty ****ing bad if not worse like that is the worst thing you can do to a man really there is a reason why your mamma jokes exist but people are always like "well you should be happy"

They say this **** to defend ****ing macron lol like what the ****? I feel so bad for bridgette's ex husband I am pretty sure her son probably hates her but her daughters seem to have shamelessly embraced it. Again I cant rant about macron if I wanted all day long but you get my point right? This is so bad like i cant watch anything french really I find french movies perverted.

my problem is that I put myself in the shoes of poeple involved in these distressing situations and live it out, I feel that vicarious trauma. This shouldnt happen because it is not my reality but unfortunately it is someone's and the thing is with the growing degeneracy and shamelessness in our world it is becoming the reality for more people. SO does it matter that my ruminations are not real and not applicable to me? it is certainly real and applicable to someone. I just find this stuff deeply triggering so dont even start with me. I am right you are wrong. Yes all of you